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I’M ONLINE AND CAN'T GET A DATE. 7 DATING MISTAKES YOU MAY BE MAKING:

  1. Many a candidate has embarked on this journey before he/she is emotionally ready. Your emotionally healthy prospect will be able to spot your baggage from space – clear it before even thinking of starting out.

  2. Take time to think about the person you really want. If you are unclear, you won’t be able to design your online material to attract the person you really want.

  3. Your profile says EVERYTHING about you. Coming across too cranky, needy, shabby, suspicious, flaky, desperate or depressed can end your prospects right here.

  4. Don’t try to come across as someone you are not. It will show in the end. Authenticity is attractive.

  5. How quickly you respond to contact and what you say on that first, and subsequent emails is critical. Taking two weeks to respond to someone’s email doesn’t exactly scream that they are valued. Neither does being continuously seen online while you are communicating with a serious prospect.

  6. Mistakes made during the first phone call could see you chucked out of the race. Your prospect doesn’t want to hear about past dating traumas or your family or financial woes.

  7. When and how you ask/accept the first date will say a myriad of things about you. You can risk making the moment awesome or awkward.

Each small movement you make during the process alters the trajectory toward success or failure. With nearly a decade as a relationship counsellor and successful personal online dating experience, Terri can design services to meet your needs including:

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  • Identifying the type of partner you want and how to attract him/her

  • Critiquing your profile and photos and giving you advice on how to maximise

  • Assessing your emotional good health and identifying opportunities for change

  • Exploring your habits during the process in order to identify what’s working and what’s not

  • Advice on your physical presence

  • A study of behaviours during the first and subsequent dates

 

Call for a free consultant.

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